Sarah Winman
Tin Man by Sarah Winman opens in 1950 when a pregnant Dora Judd publicly defies her husband by selecting a reproduction of Van Gogh’s Sunflowers as her raffle winnings instead of the bottle of whisky he wanted. The painting holds special significance for Dora and references to it appear throughout the novel.
The novel then shifts to 1996. Dora’s son, Ellis, is forty-six years old and mourning the death of his wife, Annie, who died in a car accident. What follows are flashbacks to Ellis’ past, his teenage love affair with Michael, and his marriage to Annie. The three form a powerful bond with Michael as a force of energy. The narrative then shifts to 1989 and 1990 with Michael’s first-person point of view, as he recalls his relationship with Ellis and his later relationship with G who dies of AIDS. Michael later succumbs to the disease. Included in the flashbacks are images of Michael’s loving grandmother who plays a prominent role in all their lives. Michael abruptly leaves London after her death and loses contact with his two friends for several years.
In beautiful, simple, and heart-warming prose, Winman captures the sadness, grief, and loneliness at the loss of those who were once bound by an all-consuming love and friendship for one another. Her prose is tender, restrained, and compassionate. The loneliness and grief are palpable, as is the love they share. But the novel is not simply about grief over the loss of a loved one. It is also about grief for the many paths not taken in life—the many pursuits, indulgences, choices in life that were relinquished in favor of others. In that sense, the novel laments our lost selves—the selves we might have been had we made different choices.
Winman has crafted a powerful, moving narrative in a little over 200 pages in which she depicts with tenderness and warmth the many forms and fluidity of love; intense feelings of loss and grief; and middle-age regret over the road not taken.
Very highly recommended.